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瑞溪镇曾爱梅

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    撰稿\曾令蕃 南渡江畔寿星曾爱梅\南渡江是海南第一大河流,也是澄迈县的母亲河。南渡江河水清澈,两岸风光旖旎,良田千顷,物产丰富。在澄迈的沿江两岸,长寿历史文化悠久,这里的长寿老人也较多。今年101岁的曾爱梅阿婆,从小就长在江边,虽然她一生至今大半辈子都过着简朴的生活,但南渡江就如一位慈爱的母亲,滋养着她。

    Written by \Zeng LingFan

    The Nandu river bank longevity

    god once loved the plum

    Nandu river was the Hainan first big rivers, also was Chengmai County's mother river.The Nandu river river water is limpid, the both banks sight fluttering flags, the fertile farmland thousand leans, the product is rich.In Chengmai both banks, the longevity history culture is along the river glorious, here long-lived person are also many.101 year-old once loved the plum mother-in-law this year, since childhood on long in waterfront, although her life the most lifetime all is spending the simple life until now, but Nandu river on like an affection mother, was nourishing her.

    曾爱梅1909年2月出生于澄迈县瑞溪墟口坡村, 父母生三女一男,她为次女。她8岁时,母亲病故。因家贫难于维持生计,父亲早早为三位女儿定下娃娃亲。当她17岁那年,她和瑞溪墟山口村青年林宏柏结了婚。可是,婚后夫唱妻随的甜蜜生活好景不长,人生的厄运无情地降临到这位花季般的刚为人妻的女子身上。结婚刚有两年,她还没有怀上孩子,心爱的丈夫突然病故,这突如其来的打击,使曾爱梅内心充满痛苦和悲伤,而之后她的一生充满坎坷和磨难。

    因受封建孝节礼教思想的束缚,曾爱梅19岁开始守寡,从一而终。在澄迈传统习俗上,耕地犁田都是男人的事。曾爱梅自知家无男人之苦,于是,她事必躬亲,男人干的粗重活她样样能干,耕牛打稻,那一样她都拿得起。村中丈夫的亲戚或邻居家孩子小,缺劳动人手,她就自动帮忙,那家缺粮米,她不吝周济。

    阿婆36岁那年,在避战乱时,两腿胯骨处各中了一枪,子弹打穿了大腿肌肉,鲜血直流。她强忍巨痛,隐蔽丛林。在她流血过多几乎昏死的时候,丈夫村的乡亲及时找到她,把她抬回来。当时没钱看医抓药,乡亲煮盐水替她洗伤口,抓草药熬汤喂她喝,把她从死神手中抢了回来。男人每天到南渡江摸鱼捞虾,熬汤让她补身体。过了一个月,曾爱梅以顽强的意志战胜枪伤,奇迹般地康复。如今,老人两腿上仍留下深陷的疤痕。

    阿婆人缘好,人人敬重她,无论谁见阿婆在干重活,都主动上去帮她。村中有老者说:“曾阿婆一生只是帮助别人,没有骂过任何一个人,邻近十个村庄也没有一个人骂过阿婆。”至今,她虽然单身一人,无子无孙,但几十年来都得到乡亲和邻居的照应。

    阿婆八十岁时,虽然那时她早已享受五保户的生活待遇了,她却闲不住,还到田里劳动。现在,老人能自己劈柴、煮饭、洗衣服,生活自理,说话声音洪亮。虽然有些背驼,但没有什么疾病,耳聋眼不花。当我们问她长寿秘诀,老人说:“邻近村像阿婆这样老的人少有啦,老不中用了啊!”我们说:“县政府关心长寿老人,每月生活补助,阿婆放心活着,越长寿越好。”说到政府,老人心头就乐,笑呵呵地说:“天下只有这个人民政府好啊!”

    Once liked the plum in February, 1909 being born in the Chengmai County auspicious brook ruins mouth slope village, the father homalium hainanensis three female one male, she was the second daughter.When her 8 years old, the mother dies from illness.Because the family poor difficulty with maintains the livelihood, the father early is three daughters settles the baby to kiss.When her 17 year old of that year, she and auspicious brook ruins mountain pass village youth Lin Hongbai married.But, the marriage second husband sings the wife along with the happy life prosperity is not long, the life misfortune arrived heartlessly to this flower Ji Pan just on the manner wife's female body.The marriage just had two years, she has not been with on the child, the beloved husband died from illness suddenly, this suddenly attack, caused once to love the plum innermost feelings fill pain and sad, after but her life fill rough and the tribulation.

    Because of the feudal filial piety festival Confucianism thought fetter, is once liked the plum 19 years old starting to remain a widow, faithful until death.In the Chengmai tradition custom, the farming plows all is man's matter.Once liked the plum self-awareness not to have pain of the man, therefore, her everything kissed gong, man's dry thick heavy labor she was every kind competent, the farm cattle threshed rice, that she all could take up equally.In the village husband's relative or the neighbor child are small, lack the work manpower, she volunteers to help, that family lacks the grain rice, her liberal with alms. The mother-in-law 36 year old of that year, when evades the chaos caused by war, two leg hipbones place respectively hit a gun, the bullet have punctured the thigh muscle, the blood cocurrent.She suppresses the great pain, covert jungle.Bleeds in her excessively many faints nearly, the husband village fellow villager promptly found her, lifts her.At that time did not have Qian Kanyi to get medicine, the fellow villager boiled the salt water to wash the wound for her, grasped the herbal medicine to make soup feeds her to drink, has snatched her from the god of death hand.The man arrives Nandu river to catch a fish by hand every day fishes the shrimp, makes soup lets her build up one's health.Crossed for a month, once liked the plum defeating the bullet wound by the tenacious will, the miracle recovery.Now, on the old person two legs still left behind the depth the scar. The mother-in-law personal connection is good, everybody respects her, regardless of who sees the mother-in-law to do the heavy labor, is all initiative helps her.In the village some old men said that,“Once mother-in-law life only helps others, has not scolded any person, was close to ten villages also not to have a person to scold the mother-in-law.” Until now, she although the unmarried person, does not have the grandson without the child, but for several dozens years all obtain the fellow villager and neighbor taking care of. When mother-in-law 80 years old, although she already enjoyed the household enjoying the five guarantees at that time the life treatment, she actually idle, but also arrived in the field to work.Now, the old person can own firewood, cook a meal, do laundry, the life takes care of oneself, the speech sound is loud and clear.Although some back camel, but does not have what disease, deafness eye not to be colored.When we asked her longevity secret, the old person said: “Neighbor village likely mother-in-law such old person unusual, never used!”We said that,“The county government cared about the long-lived person, each month of living cost allowance, the mother-in-law felt relieved is living, jumps over the longevity to be better.” Speaks of the government, the old person heart is happy, said with a laugh: “World only then this people's government good!”

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